"The world takes us to a silver screen on which flickering images of passion and romance play, and as we watch, the world says, "This is love." God takes us to the foot of a tree on which a naked and bloodied man hangs and says, "This is love.""
Don't concern yourself with being right in others' eyes. And don't secretly hope that their lives will fall apart so that your opinion will be vindicated. Instead, concentrate on obeying God in your own life, and when possible, helping others to obey Him as well. You don't have to prove others wrong to continue on the course you know God has shown you.
- Joshua Harris, I Kissed Dating Goodbye: A New Attitude Toward Relationships and Romance